Ultimate 3-Step Mac and Cheese Recipe for Creamy Comfort

You know those days when everything feels like a bit too much the kids are loud, the laundry’s endless, and dinner? Yeah, dinner feels impossible. That’s when I reach for the ultimate comfort food: mac and cheese. Not the boxed kind (though hey, we’ve all been there!), but a creamy, homemade version that’s rich, cozy, and soul-soothing with every bite.
This recipe is more than just pasta and cheese it’s a cozy hug in a bowl, the kind that wraps you up and makes everything feel a little better. It reminds me of my mom’s golden baked mac and cheese, the one she used to make when school days got tough or I just needed something to make the world feel a little kinder. Now, I make my own twist on it, using simple, weeknight-friendly ingredients that still deliver big flavor. Serve them together and suddenly, a regular Tuesday night feels like a little celebration on your plate.
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Why You’ll Love This Mac and Cheese
Let’s be real: we all need a few go-to recipes in our back pocket. This one checks every box:
- ✅ Ridiculously creamy and rich without being too heavy
- ✅ Made with real ingredients (no weird powders here!)
- ✅ A one-pot wonder with minimal cleanup
- ✅ Can be baked, air-fried, or gobbled straight from the stove
- ✅ A kid-friendly pasta recipe that even picky eaters won’t fight
- ✅ Perfect for weeknights, holidays, or emotional support dinners
Seriously, it’s like a warm fuzzy blanket for your belly.
Ingredients for the Creamiest Homemade Mac and Cheese Recipe
Here’s what you’ll need to make this magic happen:
- Elbow macaroni Classic for a reason, but any small pasta works!
- Butter Salted or unsalted, just adjust salt as needed.
- Flour For that silky roux base.
- Salt & pepper Don’t skimp season as you go!
- Milk + half and half This blend gives it ultra-rich creaminess.
- Shredded cheddar cheese The sharper and more aged, the better the flavor payoff.
Optional (but highly recommended): a pinch of nutmeg or garlic powder for extra depth.
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Easy Mac and Cheese from Scratch: Step-by-Step
1. Cook the pasta:
Boil your elbow macaroni in salted water until just al dente. Drain and set aside don’t overcook it, or you’ll end up with mac-and-mush.
2. Make the roux:
In the same pot, melt butter over medium heat. Whisk in the flour until it forms a golden paste. Let it cook for a minute or two it should smell a little nutty.
3. Add the dairy:
Slowly whisk in the milk and half and half. Keep whisking until it thickens into a silky sauce. This is the part where you feel like a total kitchen wizard.
4. Cheese it up:
Add your shredded cheddar a handful at a time, stirring until it melts. Season with salt and pepper to taste. That first taste of the cheese sauce? Just chef’s kiss.
5. Combine pasta + sauce:
Stir the pasta into the cheese sauce until every piece is lovingly coated. At this point, you could call it done or take it to the next level.
Baked Mac and Cheese or Air Fryer Mac and Cheese? You Choose.
If you’ve got a few extra minutes, baked mac and cheese is where the crispy, golden magic happens. Pour your creamy mac into a buttered baking dish, sprinkle a bit more cheese (and maybe some buttery breadcrumbs) on top, and bake at 375°F for 20 minutes.
Or because this is Airfryer Diaries why not try an air fryer mac and cheese version? Spoon your mac into oven-safe ramekins, top with cheese, and pop into the air fryer at 350°F for 10 minutes. Crispy, bubbly tops in half the time? Yes, please.
A Little Story From My Kitchen
When my daughter had her first big spelling test (you know, the kind where February is the curveball), she came home with tears in her eyes and a crumpled paper in her hand. We ditched the flashcards that night and made this mac and cheese instead. Halfway through her second helping, she smiled and said, “It tastes like you love me.” And really, what more can you ask from a pot of pasta?
Tips for Mac and Cheese That’ll Make You Famous
- Shred your own cheese. Pre-shredded can be a little waxy and won’t melt as smoothly.
- Don’t overcook the pasta. Remember, it’ll keep cooking a bit in the sauce (and even more if you bake it).
- Add-ins are welcome. Crumbled bacon? A sprinkle of smoked paprika? Roasted broccoli for balance? Go wild.
- Make it a one-pot mac and cheese. You can totally skip the bake and serve straight from the pot fewer dishes, more joy.
FAQs about Mac and Cheese
Can I make this ahead of time?
Absolutely! Just store it in an airtight container in the fridge for up to 3 days. When you’re ready to reheat, add a splash of milk to bring back that creamy texture.
Can I freeze leftovers?
Yes, you can! Let it cool completely, then portion it into freezer-safe containers. It’ll keep well for up to 2 months. Just thaw overnight in the fridge before reheating.
What cheese works best besides cheddar?
Gruyère adds a nutty richness, mozzarella brings the stretch, and a spoonful of cream cheese gives it an ultra-smooth finish. Feel free to mix and match this is your comfort food, after all!
And if you’re craving more cheesy recipes, try my Cheesy Air Fryer Potato Skins or go full cozy with this Creamy Air Fryer Chicken and Broccoli.
There’s just something about a big bowl of mac and cheese that brings everyone back to the table. Whether it’s a quick weeknight fix or your secret potluck weapon, this easy mac and cheese from scratch wraps you in comfort, love, and just the right amount of cheddar.
So go ahead grab your spoon, and make a little magic in your kitchen tonight. 💛

Mac and Cheese That Hugs You Back
Equipment
- Large Pot
- Whisk
- Baking Dish
- Air Fryer
Ingredients
Mac and Cheese
- 2 cups elbow macaroni or any small pasta
- 2 tbsp butter
- 2 tbsp all-purpose flour
- 1 cup milk
- 1 cup half and half
- 2 cups shredded cheddar cheese preferably sharp
- salt and pepper to taste
- nutmeg or garlic powder optional, for depth of flavor
Instructions
- Boil elbow macaroni in salted water until al dente. Drain and set aside.
- In the same pot, melt butter over medium heat. Whisk in flour and cook until golden and nutty-smelling.
- Slowly whisk in milk and half and half. Cook until thickened into a smooth sauce.
- Add shredded cheese in handfuls, stirring until melted. Season with salt and pepper to taste.
- Combine pasta with cheese sauce. Stir to coat well.
- Optional: For baked version, pour into a buttered baking dish, top with extra cheese or breadcrumbs, and bake at 375°F (190°C) for 20 minutes.
- Optional: For air fryer version, spoon into ramekins, top with cheese, and air fry at 350°F (175°C) for 10 minutes.